Feb 19, 2022

3/20/22 - To love beyond borders

 

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". . . love your enemies and do good to them"

Luke 6: 27-38

The Word:https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/022022.cfm

Ever since Pope Francis was elected nine years ago in March of 2013 on (3/13/13) in fact we have heard his challenging mantra to go to the borders, to love to the peripheries and accompany the poor and forgotten. It is both inspiring, inclusive, and Christ like.  But we all know how difficult this can be.  In fact, as we hear Jesus teach in the Gospel this Sunday, it is to love beyond what is normal when he demands that we love our enemies.  Why? They don’t deserve our love – or do they?

Our first reading this Sunday from the book of Samuel leaves us perhaps with mixed feelings.  David had a golden opportunity to gain one up on his enemy Saul by attacking Saul while he slept – but he doesn’t do that.  David resists the temptation from his companion Abishai who wanted to nail Saul “with one thrust of the spear” when they find him sleeping.  David resists and takes the non-violent approach as he acknowledges King Saul as the “Lord’s Anointed.” While that may not be the best military strategy it certainly highlights the core moral teaching of Jesus we hear in the Gospel from Luke today.

While David’s resistance was a momentary response, Jesus invites his disciples to make such behavior our way of living. For David’s choice raised him to a higher level than violence for violence.  He rose above evil with charity. David was hardly perfect and had done evil himself blinded by lust for Bathsheba and a murderous plot towards her husband but such past sin was repented and rejected and he chose the better part with Saul.

The Scriptures this Sunday continue for us Luke's sermon on the plain.  For Luke, as we heard last Sunday, locates Jesus on a level stretch as he comes down from the heights to embrace the condition of the poor and make it his own.  Nonetheless, whether it be literary license in order to emphasize a Gospel theme or not, the core teachings of both Matthew’s sermon on the mount or Luke’s location of Jesus on the plain is the same.  And this Sunday, the fundamental call to non-violence and love of enemies is given a prime place in Jesus' sermon to the crowds gathered to hear him.

Many times we feel guilty about our anger and we may confess the natural emotion of anger as sinful. But it's right to acknowledge that anger is a normal human emotion, yet in need of right direction.  Our natural anger rises in the face of injustice, rejection, or being treated unfairly but that's just the feeling.  And certainly, we may feel we want to seek revenge against another person and that they don't deserve either our forgiveness or certainly not our love for what they did to me or to another.  Which makes Jesus teaching a headscratcher to say the least.

Did Gandhi feel anger?  Did Dr. Martin Luther King feel like returning violence for violence?  I wonder if St. Teresa of Calcutta ever felt jealous, angry, or tempted to pride. I would guess they did but did they follow through, act upon their feelings?  No, and that is the point.  To recognize our natural emotions as normal but we resist acting upon them. In there lies virtue. So to love our enemies is to go beyond what is natural to express heroic love.  

I remember hearing a story of the famed Cure of Ars, St. John Vianney, the extraordinary parish priest in 18th century France whose fame spread in time as a confessor and holy pastor.  The thousands who came to see him would jostle and push in the crowds around him and at times he would recognize his rising aggravation.  He once said that he kept a handkerchief in his pocket and rather than speak angrily at a soul who would annoy him, he would squeeze that handkerchief very tightly in his hand discreetly and direct his negative energy into that cloth.  Well, it apparently worked!

Rather than seek retribution and put gas on the fire as it were simply to make myself feel justified I will instead offer a peaceful and non-violent response.  I will raise myself to a higher level of behavior and instead seek to reconcile or at least to offer love in the form of peaceful non-violent resistance and forgiveness. Sin is in behavior and not in normal emotion.  Of course plotting and scheming a retaliation is sinful since the intent is to carry through. Yet, remember David in our first reading.

Bishop Robert Barron speaks of gift giving as a model for Christian love.  Yet, when we gift someone, we naturally expect some sort of return:  another gift, a “thank you” note, something even better than what I gave.

Jesus teaching demands far more.  And God, in Christ, is the ultimate model for what this means; to give gratuitously without expecting return.  While giving in this way is in some way contrary to our natural inclination we are called as disciples of Jesus to model ourselves after him; after how God has given himself to us.  If we love only those who love us thats nice but normal. Jesus teaches: “Even sinners do the same.”  So we are to be different and to make a difference.

“Lend expecting nothing back . . . love your enemies, do good to them . . . stop judging, stop condemning, forgive, give . . . for the measure with which you measure will in return be measured be measured out to you.” Now there in brief short phrases and words is an ideal examination of conscience before confession.  It will surely bring out our personal stinginess, jealousy, pride, and prejudice.  The whole sacramental system of our Church is a gratuitous gift and the holy Eucharist is the greatest of all – Christ himself given to us. We give thanks to God but will never be able to equal the gift given which makes the Eucharist all the more extravagant love.

While the world might consider such behavior foolish imagine the witness it gives to the call towards love rather than hate, forgiveness rather than retribution, peaceful non-violence rather than active violence.

May we not tire of doing what is right and reach beyond our natural limitations but only by God’s grace given as gift out of love. 

 

Grant, we pray, almighty God,

that, always pondering spiritual things,

we may carry out in both word and deed

that which is pleasing to you.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son,

who lives and reigns with you

in the unity of the Holy Spirit,

one God for ever and ever.

(Opening Prayer of Mass)

 

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