Dec 19, 2025

12/21/25 - 4th Sunday of Advent: Joseph, the just

 


Joseph the just

Matthew 1: 18-24

https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/122125.cfm

Pour forth we beseech you, O Lord,

your grace into our hearts,

that we, to whom the Incarnation of Christ your Son

was made known by the message of an Angel,

may by his Passion and Cross

be brought to the glory of his Resurrection.

Who lives and reigns with you in

the unity of the Holy Spirit, 

God, for ever and ever. 

(Collect for 4th Sunday of Advent)

The interpretation of dreams is an interesting study of the human mind and how the brain basically never shuts itself off.  I think that’s a good thing considering what might happen if it did!

There are certainly many websites, books and maybe magazines that take a variety of positions about what we dream and the meaning of those often-strange images. Some of the publications raise questionable interpretations; alleged psychics present themselves as able to “channel” the dead who speak to the living. One British past radio personality even asserted to speak to your long dead dog or cat and tell you what they are “thinking and feeling” in the spirit world and what your pets are saying to you now. (There really was someone on the radio who claimed this ability!) Be careful around these well meaning (?) but misguided folks: https://www.caninejournal.com/pet-psychic/

But do our dreams predict the future for us or do the weird and often disjointed images like climbing a mountain in your bathrobe or flying through the sky next to pigeons predict some future event?

As we begin this final week of the Advent Season the Gospel for this Sunday presents Joseph, the husband of Mary, who faces a troubling moral dilemma. He appears along with John the Baptist, Mary, and Zachariah as a key player in the infancy narratives. Joseph sets the stage for the central character to appear.

Faced with the shocking pregnancy of his soon to be wife Mary, for betrothal was essentially a marriage relationship, and the brutal lawful treatment of those caught in adultery could be a death sentence by stoning, Joseph is sensitive to Mary’s reputation but wrestles with what is the right thing to do.  How can he continue with a now unfaithful woman?  He logically presumed she has violated her promised vows. Recall that Mary stated to the Angel that,". . . I have no relations with a man,” meaning Joseph and I have not been intimate, nor have I been with any other man. So Mary was faithful.

The Gospels reveal very little about Joseph so we must read between the lines. No words of his are recorded in the scriptures, which I find surprising. Nonetheless, we read that Joseph was a good and just Jewish man. We can imagine him among other Jewish men in the Synagogue and in Temple worship in Jerusalem. He was familiar with the prophecies of the coming Messiah.  He heard the words of Isaiah we hear in today’s first reading: “The Lord himself will give you a sign: the virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall name him Emmanuel.”

What he personally believed about the meaning of those prophecies we do not know but most likely he was instilled with the common hope of the Jewish people that God would directly intervene to save his people at some future time and send a “Christ” the anointed Messiah. It is the eternal hope kept alive even to this day in the Jewish community. But for Joseph to imagine that it would be his wife Mary and that he would play a key role, was just too much.

That the two of them would become the human instruments through which God would directly enter the world through the ordinariness of sacred marriage and a human family. God entered the world silently, secretly, almost as if undercover.

So, before he came to know the origin of Mary’s pregnancy, he would see it as a tragic turn of plans on a social and moral level that clearly troubled him deeply. The Bible rarely refers to the emotions of a character, but we can safely presume that this was agonizing news for Joseph.  Nonetheless, that was about to change.

God directly sent his angel to deliver the truth to Joseph and gradually brought the light of understanding to this good man – at a time that Joseph’s defences were down, in sleep in a convincing dream.  The long-awaited sign that Isaiah prophesied is now fulfilled in Joseph’s dream and message. Amazing how silent it appears.

“Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home.  For it is through the Holy Spirit that this child has been conceived in her.  She will bear a son and you are to name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.” Then the angel quotes the verse from Isaiah we hear today and that which Joseph surely heard during synagogue worship at some earlier time.

When Joseph awoke, there was no need for interpretation. There was no hesitation on his part as to his next move.  With trust, “. . . he did as the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took his wife into his home.” It says a great deal, without words, about the nature of this man who became the husband and presumed father of Mary’s child.

Then he remains silent and we hear essentially only a reference about him but a connection that implies this man was extraordinary: he travels to Bethlehem with Mary where the Christ is born, he guardedly flees with the holy family as they dash to Egypt to avoid Herod’s rage the later safely returns to Nazareth then twelve years later as he and Mary desperately search for Jesus in Jerusalem only to find him among the learned teachers in the Temple.  Years later in the synagogues of Nazareth where the adult Jesus now preaches, we hear a comment on him as “Joseph’s son” at the beginning of his public ministry. At this point, Joseph presents us with a model of receptivity.  He is an example of readiness with the posture of an open heart and mind.  Joseph “did as the angel of the Lord commanded.”  Not only did he act with confidence to take Mary as his wife, but he also received the message of the angel with trust and faith as one from God.

Joseph’s conviction was an internal one; a movement of his heart and mind to see the child of his wife as a sign from God of his mercy to humanity.  He welcomed Mary and her son. He was ready to receive them. He nurtured and protected them.

Can we do any less with the coming of the Christ?  Shouldn’t Jesus also be for us God’s great sign of his mercy and one who will “save his people from their sins?” It is time to ready ourselves, to open our hearts and to seek his mercy to make the path straight

Joseph was ready – are you?  Are we?

 

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