26th Sunday: A culture of forgiveness

Eugène Burnand |The Two Sons

Son, go out and work in the vineyard today . . . 

 Matthew 21: 28-32

The Word: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/092726.cfm

Our Gospel parable today begins: “A man had two sons. . . .” Right away we might be thinking that we are going to hear not about how wonderful these two boys were but rather about how tense things became between a father and his older son.  Jesus told parables to point out differences, sometimes very stark, between the behavior of the characters and that of the main character who represents God. Well, he does not fail to disappoint us this week as we’ve also heard these past two Sunday’s. Yet, the bottom line as the main theme of this story is God’s infinite mercy towards those who seek him no matter at what point.  Good news for us.

What if we imagined a “culture of forgiveness.” Maybe the late Pope Francis’ image of the Church as a field hospital where the wounded go to be healed and reconciled would be more the norm.

A culture of forgiveness might be one in which everyone has multiple chances to get things right. They are more loved than judged. There is always a time, a never too late opportunity, to seek reconciliation and healing and to change the direction of my life.  Such a culture should not be imaginary.

The Gospel parable is addressed to the self-righteous religious leaders in the time of Jesus.  They are obstinate in their viewpoint and rigid in their approach to faith. The parable is simple and straightforward in its message.

 Two sons are asked by their father to go work in the vineyard. Remember last Sunday when we heard another vineyard parable about the generous landowner who paid everyone the same regardless of how long they were employed.

Today, we hear that one son says “no,” I will not work there but later he changes his mind and does his father’s will. The other says “yes,” with an insincere nod to honor his father but never follows through.  “Which of the two did his Father’s will?” Jesus asks - obviously the first son.

Then the clincher which insulted the chief priests and elders of the people: Jesus states: “. . . tax collectors and prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God before you.”  Wow!  How could such shameful sinners, such public immoral behavior by “those kind” walk ahead of the righteous leaders?  Because God’s culture of forgiveness is more concerned about our present lives, our sincere repentance and conversion, than he is about our past.

We are invited every day of our life to get things right; to come back on the mark Jesus shows us. We should never be labelled for our past sins but identified by who we have become. Examples: St. Augustine, St. Ignatius, St. Francis of Assisi to name a few.

To press his point further Jesus reminds the leaders about the preaching of John the Baptist and his call to conversion.  In the same vein the preaching of Jesus and his call to embrace a new understanding and direction as well as the prophet Ezekiel’s words in the first reading today all imply the constant and never-failing invitation to conversion from a God who longs to welcome his people.  As Jesus stated: “When John came to you in the ways of righteousness, you did not believe him; but tax collectors and prostitutes did. Yet even when you saw that, you did not later change your minds . . .” Ouch!  The truth can sting when it finds its mark.

Those consumed by their own vain pursuits are responsible for their choices.  The same is true when the good is chosen regardless at what time.  Conversion, a change of heart, a time to reconsider the “no” I may have said always finds a welcome forgiveness when we choose the way that Christ shows us.

How is such possible - by God's generous grace.  Though the tax collectors and prostitutes had said "no" to God, after hearing the preaching of John the Baptist they turned back and said "yes" to him. So, their response, though later, places them ahead of the self-righteous religious leader's who remain fixed in their position. Jesus addressed them in the parable as the sons who said "yes" but never went.

In a culture of forgiveness, we would know that change is not an optional choice.  That change of heart, turning back to God and leaving behind sin and selfishness is God’s invitation to the right way.  God’s mercy is just waiting to be extended to everyone.  A culture of forgiveness makes that choice clear and supports the importance of changing the direction of our lives to always aim for that of Christ.

If we choose to be a people of forgiveness and mercy rather than judgment and division then we grow in both holiness and virtue.  Virtuous behavior completes us and deepens our sense of purpose for we are all sinners and we are all in need of mercy. Every human being is invited to this process, but God respects our choice to say yes or no as we hear in the Gospel this Sunday.

In the first reading the prophet Ezekiel spares no words: "When someone virtuous turns away from virtue to commit iniquity, and dies, it is because of the iniquity that he must die. But if he turns from the wickedness . . . and does what is right and just, he shall preserve his life . . . he shall surely live." His “no” to God is now a heartfelt “yes.”

So, think about your marriage, your personal life, your family life, your participation in your parish life, your association with friends and strangers, your place of work, and I reflect on myself in priestly service. Is there in place a culture of forgiveness found towards others? A culture that may be your personal way of acting towards others.  God touches us primarily in community life.  While the sacraments of forgiveness (Reconciliation, Eucharist, Anointing of the Sick) for example are intimate moments they are offered in and through the community of the faithful.

What can we do to institute a more forgiving, more merciful, less judgmental culture? How can we develop a more forgiving spirit to let go of feelings of retribution and wish even those who have hurt us, to wish them well? Our parishes should be ideal models of what the larger culture can be.  If there is division, competition, judgment, selective membership or cliques that is not the work of God.

If we stand above others and consider that the words of the Gospel “are not for me but for thee” then today’s readings must call us to task.

Ask the Holy Spirit, then, to reveal to you times you have said “no” or still haven’t let go of that negative will. It’s time to let go and to change.  It may be time to celebrate what you have seen as life giving and not continue a cycle that promotes harm or hurt. May God help us to create a culture of forgiveness, to inspire each other to change the direction of our lives and to always be grateful for God’s never-failing mercy.” In other words, to be more like Jesus.

God said “yes” to humanity by sending his Son among us, by the cross and resurrection and now by the gift of the Eucharist, Jesus own true presence among us.   Receiving him should always push us to let go of resistance and to be willing to work in his vineyard. 

O God, who founded all the commands

of your sacred Law upon love of you

and of our neighbor, grant that, by keeping your precepts,

we may merit to attain eternal life.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, 

who lives and reigns with you

in the unity of the Spirit, God, for ever and ever.

(Collect of Sunday)

 

 

25th Sunday - Justice or Mercy?

"You too, go into my vineyard . . . "

Matthew 20: 1-16

The Word:  https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/092026.cfm

A hard-working parish priest, after a lifetime of ministry, died and went to heaven.  When he got there, he was assigned an attractive two bedroom house to serve as his heavenly abode.  He was rather pleased with his house until he took a walk around the neighborhood and ran into a parishioner who had been a cab driver and now was living in a mansion with a swimming pool and tennis courts.  The priest went directly to St. Peter to complain.  He said, “I’ve worked my whole life long serving God’s people.  Now this parishioner of mine is a very good person, but he was a cab driver!  Why is he living in so much bigger a house than I am?”  St. Peter said, “Here’s how it goes.  When you preached, people slept.  But when he drove, people prayed.”

God’s ways are not our ways indeed.  We seek justice and fairness from the time of our childhood: “That’s not fair! Don’t punish me, he started it!” etc. How familiar does that sound to the ears of a parent for that parent themselves, when younger, likely claimed the same injustice. In the end, and we learn this from the time of our childhood, life is not fair.  Despite the wheels of justice upon which our nation’s legal system is founded, in the end stuff happens, innocent people are exploited and evil often goes unchecked or is at least allowed to wreak destruction upon those who are clearly innocent victims, we get sick, some are lost in disasters and others are not, some die young others live to a ripe old age.  Life is not fair, still justice remains a cherished virtue that should be pursued. 

Our Gospel this Sunday, the well-known parable of the workers in the vineyard, seems to illustrate this clearly.  From a purely justice level, this story about the workers who labored all day or only for an hour, yet all got the same equal pay for a whole day’s work, is clearly unjust. But is it fair?  Well, the master payed everyone what they agreed to, "what is fair," the usual daily wage ( one denari). as the master promised. Yet, those who worked all day in the hot sun, assumed they would get more but got only what they contracted for, which seems fair, sort of.   

The one’s who made out very well, are those one-hour workers, who not only got paid but were covered for an entire days work, rather than only one hour.  Who was most grateful? Those who seemingly benefitted from the master's generosity. 

Well, we can become stuck on this justice level only but remember how Jesus began this parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like . . . “  Thereby telling us that he will not speak on earthly terms but rather on Godly, spiritual terms.  God is like the master in the story – generous, merciful, kind.

Though we may measure all things as if in a scale, God is extravagant in his mercy.  He desires all to be saved, even those who come at the eleventh hour, yet are faithful in his kingdom.  So, this parable is not about justice but about mercy; God’s excessive mercy in the kingdom of heaven to which we are called.   

God’s mercy and love know no limits.  All are called to his kingdom and we are all invited to receive his grace and mercy especially at a time we may need it the most. Another indicator as to how Jesus came to reverse the material order in order to insert the power of the spiritual and bring about its conversion. 

When we fall into sin, we return to the vineyard repentant and God forgives.  If we’ve wandered away from his house, even for many years, and now come home, like the prodigal son, we find his mercy and welcome. 

The wages paid represent the fact that God can give equally to all of us at the same time.  Unlike money and all material goods of this life, some have more and some have less.  We should not tolerate injustice and work towards equality, especially with those are treated unfairly and exploited but with our God we not only receive justice we receive overflowing mercy from an endless source. 

So the challenge for us is to respond to God's unrelenting effort to seek us out like the master in search of workers and to serve in his kingdom. Despite our limitations and our own lack of mercy at times, he still invites us to his live by the values he has revealed to us. To imitate this mercy towards others.  To make it concrete and visible in our families, marriages, parish life.  That others will find a unique welcome through the Christ centered lives we offer. 

As Isaiah reminds us in our first reading: “Seek the Lord while he may be found. Call his while he is near . . . let him turn to the Lord for mercy; to our God, who is generous in forgiving. For my thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways my ways . . . “

   

O God, who founded all the commands of your sacred law

upon love of you and of our neighbor,

grant that by keeping your precepts,

we may merit to attain eternal life.

Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, 

who lives and reigns with you 

in the unity of the Holy Spirit, 

God, for ever and ever. 

(Collect of Sunday Mass)

 

24th Sunday - Forgive as you have been forgiven -Really?

 Back in the saddle here after surgery.  Not completely but all has gone well and continues to do so.  God is good and his grace of healing comes through the care and concern and prayers of others.  I have been blessed and as time goes on and the healing continues, I pray for those who are not so fortunate or those who suffer far more than I have.  Those who may find themselves in long term chronic pain or certain physical limitations as a normal state of life for them.  Let us not forget our universal call to empathy, love and compassion. 

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So will my heavenly Father do to you . . . unless your forgive from your heart

Matthew 18: 21-35

The Wordhttps://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/091326.cfm

In regards to this Sunday's powerful readings, in particular the Gospel from Matthew.  There is likely nothing more fundamental to human relationships than the ability to forgive one another.  We are broken people living in a broken world so we will at times either deliberately or without knowing it, say something or do somethings that will offend another. When it is on purpose that I direct my anger or retribution towards another, it becomes very ugly and can quickly damage a relationship maybe only temporarily or unfortunately, at time permanently.  People may go for weeks or even years holding a grudge against another for something they did.  

Granted, sometime the hurt is deep and one comes to the point of saying either we agree to disagree or I never want to see you again!  Such things are especially hurtful in families. 

Nonetheless, our Gospel this Sunday has a powerful lesson about this fundamental principle of forgiveness.  Peter, with the best of intentions, asks Jesus: "Lord, if my brother sins against me how often must I forgive? As many as seven times?" A good question from Peter who knows that seven times forgiveness is quite generous actually.  Or so he thought.

Jesus answer is telling: "I say to you not seven times but seventy-seven times."  Wow, can you imagine the look on Peter's face? Jesus multiplies Peter's offer beyond what may be reasonable or we might say natural and frames it in a parable to raise the leven of forgiveness from what we broken humans feel is generous to what God views is generous.

In otherwords, we are called to forgive as God forgives.  We will be judged not by our level of education or the balance in our checking account or bank deposits and investments but by our ability to forgive the other person and to treat them with the same level of mercy that I have received. And we all have received mercy from our compassionate God who sent his Son to save us and to forgive human sin.  

Jesus illustrates this with a parable about a servant who owed an absolutely enourmous amount of debt. So much that it would have taken him more than a hundred years to pay it off which would have been impossible. He pleads mercy from his master and he receives mercy as the master writes off the debt.  

But, this forgiven servant, while very grateful, sees no reason to apply the same mercy to a fellow servant who owed him much less.  Rather that offer what he received, he is unforgiving to the servant and demands repayment.  Talk about an ungrateful and selfish servant!

The master receives word of this and his former mercy now becomes judgment: "Pay back your debt through hard labor and incarceration."  He had no pity on that servant despite the extravagant amount of pity he recived earlier. 

Jesus last line to the parable is the point of our readings this Sunday: "So will my heavenly Father do to you, unless each of you forgives your brother from your heart."

Well, can the lesson be any clearer for us?  So, if you  have a grudge against someone, if you hold hatred in  your heart or whatever towards another, this is the Sunday to offer forgiveness.  To pray for the one who hurt you and to go to confession to be reconciled. God's mercy is always available in confession and while a resentful grudge is not on the level of more serious sin, it potentially could be.  Gossip, calumny (to purposefully injure the reputation of another maliciously), or anything related to this ugly sins, must be eliminated from our lives.  

Jesus warns us, our peace of mind and social harmony seeks it, and our search for holiness is at a dead end unless we open the gate to be people of mercy, not seven times but seventy seven times. Forgive with divine forgiveness and allow God to be the ultimate judge.  

On medical leave

 To my blog, family,

I’m going to be taking several weeks off due to surgery that I will be having this coming week and then some recovery time. The surgery is considered a low risk, but it’s something that needs to be done. That being said I probably won’t be having many blog entries for a number of weeks.

As I’ve said before, there are many great resources for Sunday reflections and I’m sure that you look at other places as I do. Our Catholic Church is so rich with knowledge and resources.

So keep me in your prayers as I will as well. Once I’m up and around, which should be before the end of September, I’ll be in touch again. God bless you all, and may the Lord grant us his peace healing, and the love.

Fr  Tim