Sep 6, 2025

23rd Sunsday - "A demanding Lord?"

 

(Bret Jordan - unsplash)

"Anyone who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple"

Luke 14: 25-33

The Word: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/090725.cfm

O God, by whom we are redeemed and receive adoption,

look graciuosly upon youjr beloved sons and daughters,

that those who believe in Christ

may receive true freedom

and an everlastingin inheritance.

Through out Lord Jesus Christ your Son,

who lives and reigns with you 

in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God, for ever and ever. 

(Opening Collect of Mass)

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A Catholic school teacher once asked her eager 10 year old students to hold up their hands if they would give $1 million to the missionaries. All their hands went up immediately and they shouted “Yes.” She then pushed the point further and asked if they would give $1,000, then $100 and each time they eagerly all waved their hands in the air and shouted a firm “Yes.”

Then she asked a final time if they would give even $1 to the missionaries.  They once again shouted “Yes” except for one boy who did not raise his hand this time.  The teacher asked him “Why didn’t you say ‘Yes’ this time?” The boy said, “Well, I actually have a dollar.” Can we let go of one dollar for a higher good?

What about Jesus’ own words about the true cost of being his disciple? Jesus makes at first three inhuman demands on us to be his disciples: to hate one’s family members, including your parents; to carry the cross, and to give up all your possessions. I’m not sure about you but I would reassess my desire to follow Jesus if he literally means this.

That to follow him will not be the easy or necessarily the popular way. Masses of people followed him following for a variety of reasons: his teaching, healing, compassionate manner and his evident power for everyone wants to be on the winner’s side. To an oppressed and exploited people his presence was the longed-for hope.

Over the last several Sunday’s Jesus has been rather harsh in our choice of Gospels as he lays out for us his demands of Christian discipleship – and they have not been comfortable.  We’ve heard about divisiveness in families over matters of faith, about humility, and the narrow gate to salvation. This Sunday we hear Jesus speaking of hate towards family members and about renouncing all possessions.  These are tough words and perhaps the most controversial he spoke

Is he asking the impossible for the average person? In the end this is a lesson is detachment. It is not just about being a disciple but about being a serious disciple.  Not saying, “I’ll follow you Lord” and then when reality hits, you say: “Well, on second thought.”

Jesus taught in the style of the ancient rabbis.  They exaggerate to drive home a point, often by using shocking examples: cut off your hand and pluck out your eye! It emphasizes the seriousness of sin and is hard to forget since sometimes we need a knock on the head.

Yet, the word is a strong one and Jesus’ demand is not wishy-washy.  The clincher is at the end of today’s Gospel passage: “Anyone who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple.” So, Jesus words imply both a requirement and a certain attitude towards what I may consider is of great value in my life.  What or who can I not live without?  What or who is my most precious possession?  What is possessing me rather than be seen as temporary. What or who might I consider irreplaceable?  Most of us would always choose people over possessions but is Jesus asking more?

For those families who may have experienced the loss of their home in a fire or most recently in a hurricane understand how valuable are the family members rather than the stuff in their home. You can’t replace people like things. But, today Jesus words about “hating father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sister, even his own life . . .” can really cause us to question Jesus.

The same may be true about the images he uses in the Gospel of a builder and a King who marches into battle.  They make great efforts to calculate and plan their next move.  They measure carefully to construct a building that will be strong and last many years and they calculate the size of the opposing army in relation to their own. All this takes a certain common sense and skill. Yet is this some sort of backhanded approval of military action?

Putting this all together, and understanding that Jesus’ words may imply a different kind of “hate” in its original context we may find his call to discipleship may not be as heart wrenching in its implication as first impresses. Still, it is a serious challenge that demands an assessment of our priorities.

So, really the implication is not to “hate” family members in the sense of hostility but more to greatly prefer something else when faced with a choice. To have God above all things and people rather than to make “gods” of things and people. To follow the Lord; to live by his values and morals and to prefer nothing else that would be less than that. In the same way, to not be attached to people or possessions in a way that would distract me from the higher value of following the Lord.  I “hate” this thing or even this relationship because it is blocking the greater need to develop a relationship with Christ. Ultimately, to know that even when it comes to family and the “stuff” I have, when in conflict, I would always choose God above all others.  These are tough words to be sure but in the larger context of daily Christian living, they make sense if we take our discipleship seriously.

Christian history has provided many inspiring examples of those who took these words literally:  St. Francis of Assisi, St. Thomas Moore, and St. Teresa of Calcutta among many others.  So, while it may seem daunting, we know with the grace of God all is possible. These were not just followers of the Lord – they were true disciples of Jesus and that is where we are all called to go. Conversion is a daily process of prayer, reflection, common sense, and perseverance. Like the builder and the King in the Gospel, we must also be calculating in the overall value we place upon our life of faith and our relationship with God

 

So, maybe basic question to ask ourselves is “Am I a follower of Christ or am I his disciple?” Am I willing to engage in serious discipleship?

 

 

 

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