Nov 6, 2026

32nd Sunday - Are you ready?


"Behold the bridegroom, come out to meet him!"

Matthew 25: 1-13

https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/110826.cfm

Almighty and merciful God,
graciously keep from su all adversity,
so that, unhindered in mind and body alike,
we may pursue in freedom of heart
the things that are yours.
(from Collect of Sunday)


Several years ago, as a favor to another priest, I conducted a wedding at a nearby Catholic Church for a couple who I really didn’t know very well.  He assured me they were prepared for the marriage and felt things would go well. So, all the proper permissions were in order and I frankly looked forward to a nice wedding ceremony from all that I had heard.

The priest was right as far as I could judge on meeting them that all should go well for the wedding however the beginning of the wedding was a bit off putting.  The entire wedding party had arrived early enough. As guests were arriving, I was likewise getting ready and joined them in the entrance of the Church to begin the ceremony with the wedding party lined up, I noticed the groom was missing! With less than five minutes to go I asked if anyone knew where he was, but no one did.  Earlier "sightings" of the groom had happened, including by myself, but when all was ready, we were found waiting.  I don't know how the bride felt but she was preoccupied with last minute details out of sight. All was ready, but no husband to be.

 Finally, one of the groom's men said, "I last saw him downstairs." So, two of us then went in search of the groom and sure enough, he was watching a baseball game on TV.  He claimed he lost track of time but then ran upstairs to take his place. While embarrassed with nervous laughter, all settled down to proceed as expected.  I whispered to him, "Are you sure you want to do this?" he joked, "Sorry, yes of course." I could not help but think of this Sunday's parable from Matthew's Gospel about the waiting bride’s maids as they longed for the groom to appear.

At this time as we come quickly to the end of our liturgical year, this theme or anticipation of the Lord's coming is before us.  While we may not want to reflect much on the end times, it is better for us to anticipate and to be aware of where the Lord is present to us now, each day. 

Reflecting Jewish wedding custom of the day this parable of Jesus is fundamentally our attitude as Christians who await the return of the Lord who will come at some time in his risen glory for the final judgement on all creation. Like the bridesmaids we must be ready to receive him whenever that moment arrives keeping in reserve a life of good works and spiritual strength to offer when he comes.

The maidens are to accompany the bride from her home to the groom’s home in great joy as she is carried in procession.  The mood is festive. Yet, the groom may be negotiating with the bride's father about financial arrangements for his daughter. 

Suddenly, at the midnight hour the groom (Christ) appears to the surprise of everyone. The story emphasizes overall that being prepared for the Lord's final coming at the end of all time is a wise choice.  To seek and welcome Wisdom, a reference to Christ, in our first reading is the model for all Christians. While living life with no future thought is foolish, when it comes to our faith; our spiritual life and the life of Jesus' Gospel values.

Here Jesus emphasizes not when he is to come, yet we fully believe that he will return the this earth at some moment in time, but wisdom is not so much to fret about that as it is to live in readiness.  Likewise, each day is another opportunity to meet the Lord and to show him how wise we have been rather than wasteful and reckless.

Our first reading from the Book of Wisdom uses the word “anticipation.” The writer of Wisdom tells us: “She hastens to make herself known in anticipation of their desire.” Obviously, the writer of this Book assumed the female pronoun adds to the beauty of wisdom.

The implication is that she knows that she is desirable not for any inappropriate reasons but rather for the insight she bestows to make careful and intelligent choices – with “prudence.” True wisdom is to know what God desires and to seek that out for our lives.

The Spirit breaths into us and teaches that we can’t be lazy but rather we must be open and ready to receive the Lord.  We should be seeking him, anticipating his coming, and be ready for when he arrives.  Our lives should contain good works, signs of charity and selfless service towards others, a faith that has grown and been put into to practice. Such works are the fruit of our lives in Christ and, symbolized by the oil, our “lamps” are found burning bright when the groom arrives.

Having enough oil as our parable illustrates is a sign of our readiness before God. The Christian life points to the future and not only to our present moment in time. Thus, we see this illustrated in our Gospel parable. So, we hear the Gospel as a whole, not just as a part.

Jesus tells us to not be complacent about our life of faith. As Catholic Christians we enjoy a spiritual treasure and tradition.  How well do I know what is there? Do I take seriously my prayer life, do I participate in the sacraments especially the Eucharist and Reconciliation? Do I offer some time in doing good works for the benefit of others, do I take advantage of learning more about my faith or do I assume that what I learned in Catholic grade school or during my teenage years is all I need to know?  Do I take some time to spend with the scriptures and/or read a book on spirituality or the lives of the saints?  Do I ever pray the Rosary? Our journey may lead us down different paths but in the spiritual life, there is a path for all of us. We can go on and on about the treasures of our faith but to ignore them, to never explore such things or participate on some level in them, is to be at a serious loss – basically foolish.

Bottom line, the whole point of our existence here is to get to heaven.  How I get there is answered in this parable. If we are living the life of the Gospel in the best way that we can as a disciple of Christ, then we are ready to meet him whenever it is that time. I think, personally, how we will be judged in the end will hear God saying to us: “What did you do with what I gave you?” If we cannot answer that question, we may indeed need to check our oil supply!

 

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